So usually when someone says they are in love with a taken man things are not this complicated. Let's start from the beginning. I'm in love with a Transexual. I met him when I finally got to college. It was going pretty well. He was great about all my alters and most of us really like him. I started to fall for him. He is completely amazing towards me. Thing is he has a girlfriend, so he cannot be with me. It's not even just a hey, sorry I don't like you, its a hey, I like you, but I'm in love with her, sorry. So we keep slipping up. We have kissed and we flirt all the time. Half the college thinks we are dating. He doesn't even realize it sometimes. He just subconsciously sits closer then he needs or says flirty things. I think the real kicker though is that he has never actually met his girl in person. The two of them have only talked over phone and skype and texted. They have been dating for a year and a half and he wants to get engaged. I'm worried about how it'll all end. I know all I can do is be there for him, but I want to do more. This whole thing just sends me through a spiral of emotions every day.....Sigh....How do I get myself into these messes?